(If you said kisses I will give you half the points)
Even though I do love me some kisses,
One of my favorite parts of the relationship is how comfortable we are with each other.
We can talk about things that I would not talk about with anyone else.
At least not to this extent.
ESPeCIALLY not to a GUY!
We can talk about when I am on my period.
We can laugh and make jokes.
We talk about farting.
We fart around each other.
It is a thing we do.
And you know.
That might sound weird and gross to many many many of you...
It's really nice to be so comfy with someone that you don't have to pretend about things.
You don't have to pretend you don't fart.
You don't have to pretend your cramps don't hurt.
You get to be you 100%!!!
And when we are married and we get to whole new level of relationship... we will be able to talk about that too.
And do you know how nice that will be.
At this point I know that after we get married and we start producing little minions...
I know NOW that I will be able to talk about that pregnancy with him.
I know that I will be able to be honest with him and that we will be able to laugh and joke about the things that are happening while I become more and more rotund.
And It is SO NICE knowing that we will be able to do that.
I know I can talk to him about anything.
Even the irrational things.
I can talk to him about anything that is bothering me.
Even if it is something petty or stupid that someone did.
He knows he can vent about his day.
He knows that he can complain about homework.
He is honest with me right back .
IT IS SO IMPORTANT!
We had to WORK to get it this way.
We had to TALK and get to know each other
And all that work is paying off.
He is my best friend first.
And that is great.
I know that when the going gets rough.
I can joke about it to him, or I can cry and know he is going to comfort me, and vice versa.
If he needs cheering up I will be there.
If he needs encouragement I will be there.
If he needs someone to just listen, I will be there.
I hope you all can find someone that you are that comfortable with.
It is literally the best!!!!