Girls like to talk about boys.
A lot.
Especially OUR boys.
Like our boyfriend/fiance/hubby
That sort of thing.
But there is this very annoying thing that girls sometimes do.
When one girl talks about her boy another girl will pipe in
"Gosh. I just don't know how you can stand him!!! I would have dumped him by now!!!"
Well here is the thing.
They AREN'T the ones dating him.
There is probably a reason they aren't dating him.
If it were me, I would be GLAD they weren't dating him... cause of the "he's MY guy" mentality
There is a reason they are with whom they are with...
(Or if they are single there is probs a reason for that too...)
But just saying.
If you are one of the women who tells other women that "Boy. If I were dating/married to your boy/hubs..."
You probs should stop...
Like seriously stop.
Because you ARE NOT with them.
They are NOT your boyfriend/hubby
So. Butt out.
Sorry. This one is a little salty.
I overheard a conversation where one girl was ridiculed for who she was dating because it wasn't who the other girl would date. And that is super stupid because the other girl is not even the one dating the guy and if the first girl wants to date the guy, then she should be allowed to (unless he is a total jerk and is going to harm or hurt her in any way)
*takes deep breath*
But basically everyone has someone that is meant for them.
respect that.
If they were with you they would either be with the wrong person or wouldn't be meant for someone else anyways.
So be nice.
Be uplifting.
There is already enough drama in the world.
Don't add to it.
Stay happy folks.