you have two choices
you can be mad and hold a grudge
or you can let go and give it to God
staying mad is going to hurt you more than them
Its like a poison in your heart.
Eating you from the inside out.
And hardening your heart where all you can feel is anger
The other choice is to truly let go of your anger
Give it to God.
When this happens you will feel a lot of emotions other than anger.
You may feel sad, confused, hurt, you may even feel absolutely fine. (It really depends on your situation).
But at the root of those feelings.
There is a peace from God that cannot be shaken.
And that peace alone is worth giving up your anger.
It’s a tough choice and may take some time to give your anger fully to God.
To fully give Him your anger, you have to forgive. Truly forgive.
Just to be clear, you can forgive a person and still set boundaries. Just because you forgive doesn’t mean you have to a doormat.
That forgiveness, little bit by little bit is so freeing!
And the best way to begin forgiving someone (even if it is forgiving yourself) is to pray for whomever it is you need to forgive.
So what choice are you going to make?